Every leadership conversation I have this year lands on the same word eventually. Change readiness.
It comes up when a business is restructuring, when a new system is rolling out, when AI enters the room and nobody quite knows what to do with it. Everyone agrees adaptability is the thing. Almost nobody can tell me how they are actually building it.
That gap is the reason we spent the past six months building a course with Jacqui Louder, a mental performance coach and clinical psychologist who has worked with Collingwood and Melbourne Storm at premiership level, and who has spent the past six months embedded in our own leadership capacity programs. Jacqui’s fingerprints are all over what I want to walk through here.
The word we needed to replace
We started this project with the word resilience, and we abandoned it fast.
Ask five different teams what resilience means and you get five different answers. Physical resilience. Bouncing back from adversity. Organisational resilience. The word has been used in so many contexts that it has lost the specificity you need to actually train for it. You cannot improve what you cannot define.
So we defined mental agility instead: the capacity to move flexibly between demands, tasks, roles and relationships while staying grounded, effective and adaptable under pressure. It combines cognitive flexibility, learning effectiveness, emotional regulation and psychological hardiness. Mentally agile people think clearly under pressure, navigate uncertainty with curiosity, recover from setbacks and adjust their behaviour when conditions change.
That is not a vague aspiration. It is a trainable leadership skill.
Within our Leadership Capacity framework, Mental Agility sits primarily within psychological capacity. It is one of four interconnected capacities, alongside physical, operational and relational capacity, that determine whether a leader’s capability holds up under pressure.
AI increases capability. It does not remove the need for Mental Agility
I want to deal with the obvious question before it derails everything else. Is the answer here more AI?
No. AI can help leaders analyse information, generate options and produce work faster. But the leader remains responsible for judgement: knowing what to trust, what to question, when to change direction and what standards, must remain human.
Learning to use AI well is itself an act of Mental Agility. It requires leaders to test assumptions, update their approach and recognise when a plausible answer is not the right answer.
AI increases what an organisation can do. Leadership Capacity determines whether that becomes better decisions and sustainable performance, or simply more output and more change to absorb.
Understand the brain
Jacqui and I built this course around six lessons, and I want to give you the shape of it because I think every one of these lands somewhere in your working week.
Most of us were never taught how our own brain actually operates under pressure, only its structure. Jacqui teaches three zones. A survival zone, where stress chemicals dominate and thinking narrows to protection. A limbic zone, where memory and emotion process what is happening and decide where you go next. And a prefrontal zone, the smart part of the brain, where judgement, planning and real thinking happen. The skill is not staying in the prefrontal zone permanently. Nobody can. The skill is recognising which zone you are in, quickly, so you can do something about it.
Optimum physiology
You are not a head on a stick. Sleep, movement and nutrition are the biological infrastructure that determines how much cognitive capacity you have available before pressure even arrives. Deplete the body and the survival zone becomes the default, regardless of how skilled or experienced you are. This is the part leaders skip because it feels unrelated to performance. It is not unrelated. It is the base everything else sits on.
Personal identity
This is the part I found most useful to sit with myself. Personal identity is the invisible operating system behind how you interpret events, the internal story about what you are capable of and whether pressure signals threat or growth. The same piece of tough feedback lands as a threat for one person and an opportunity for another, and the difference is not the feedback. It is the operating system underneath it.
Emotional regulation
Have you ever been had by your emotions? Everyone has. Emotional regulation is the ability to notice activation early and insert a pause before you react. The technique we teach is simple: a breath in, a longer breath out, roughly six seconds, before you speak or act. It sounds too small to matter. It is the difference between a bad moment and a bad day that turns into a bad week.
Learning effectiveness
Most professional learning does not fail because the content is wrong. It fails because the learning is not reinforced or applied.
Learning effectiveness is the ability to turn new information and experience into improved behaviour. That means retrieving what you have learned, applying it in context, reflecting on what happened and using feedback to adjust.
The aim is not to consume more content. It is to make useful learning stick and ensure it shows up when the pressure is real.
Hardiness
The final layer, and the one that reframes resilience properly. Psychological hardiness is the attitudinal framework that lets you interpret stress as a challenge rather than a threat. It rests on three things. Commitment, staying engaged rather than withdrawing. Control, focusing on what you can actually influence. And challenge, treating adversity as an opportunity to grow rather than a problem to survive. My friend Paul Taylor has written extensively on this, and it echoes what special forces training has long understood: hardiness is trained, not simply possessed.
I got tested on this properly a while back doing helicopter underwater escape training with Angela. I had done the preparation, spoken to people who had been through it, thought I was ready. I was not ready. I went into full survival-zone panic the moment I was dunked. What got me through was not talent. It was recognising I was in that zone, using the tools we teach, and choosing to see the situation as a challenge rather than a threat I needed to escape. That is hardiness in practice, not in theory.
Awareness is not the finish line
Here is what I want to leave you with. None of these six layers work if you only understand them intellectually. Knowing which zone you are in does not regulate your nervous system. Knowing your learning style does not change your behaviour on its own. The shift happens through practice, repeated often enough that it becomes automatic under real pressure, not through a single moment of insight in a session.
That is the whole point of building this as a structured course rather than a single keynote. Mental agility is not something you decide to have. It is something you train, layer by layer, until it holds when the pressure is real.
We built PQ’s Mental Agility course to do exactly that: six lessons, grounded in science, delivered with the tools and activities to make each layer usable in your own week. If you want to build this capability in yourself or your team, you can find the course here.
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About the Author
Andrew May is a mental skills coach, leadership advisor, keynote speaker and author. As founder and CEO of Performance Intelligence, he works with senior executives and high-performing teams across Australian business, elite sport and the Australian Defence Force to build the systems, culture and mindset that make high performance sustainable. He holds a Bachelor of Applied Science in Exercise Physiology and a Master’s in Coaching Psychology, and has worked as a mental skills and leadership coach with the Wallabies, Waratahs, Sea Eagles, Tim Tszyu to name a few. He is the author of MatchFit and The Ripple Effect, and host of the Performance Intelligence Podcast.
